The Idea
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Happiness is not like math, it is more like art.
Happiness can't be computed algorithmically. There is no finite truth about what happiness is or how one can be happy. There is no formula that is always true for everyone everywhere.
With happiness, the process matters. What you see when you zoom out is important. It is perceived differently by different people. It has different labels and depends on context.
Happiness means not wanting the world to be different. Happiness is not a goal you reach. It's the continuous byproduct of a life well-lived.
Happiness can be conflated with joy, pleasure, fun, peace, contentment and other labels we use to describe positive perceptions of life. There is no agreed upon definition of what happiness means — which makes it difficult to objectively grasp and describe.
Nuanced perspectives can help us understand more about how happiness relates to our everyday experience.
“Peace is happiness at rest; happiness is peace in motion.”
— Naval Ravikant
Explore
➞ Watch Daniel Kahneman's distinction between the Experiencing Self and the Remembering Self as a nuanced view on the difference between happiness as an in-the-moment enjoyment or as a form of satisfaction based on reflection on one's life.
➞ Read about the Peak-End Rule to understand more about how we judge experiences.
➞ Explore the concept of Neuroplasticity in this video to understand how our brain re-wires and how this affects our experience.
Resources
If this idea resonates with you, some of these resources might add value to your life.
Link | NAME | Format | Author |
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Daring Greatly | Book | Brené Brown | |
How To Stop Worrying And Start Living | Book | Dale Carnegie | |
10% Happier | Book | Dan Harris | |
Happy | Book | Derren Brown | |
The Voice Of Knowledge | Book | Don Miguel Ruiz | |
The Power Of Now | Book | Eckhart Tolle | |
Navalmanack: The Almanack of Naval Ravikant | Book | Eric Jorgenson | |
To Have Or To Be | Book | Erich Fromm | |
The Art Of Loving | Book | Erich Fromm | |
Siddharta | Book | Hermann Hesse | |
The Poetry of Impermanence, Mindfulness, And Joy | Book | John Brehm | |
The Little Book Of Stoicism | Book | Jonas Salzgeber | |
The Happiness Hypothesis | Book | Jonathan Haidt | |
12 Rules For Life | Book | Jordan B. Peterson | |
The Prophet | Book | Khalil Gibran | |
Dao De Jing | Book | Laozi | |
Meditations | Book | Marcus Aurelius | |
Courage | Book | Osho | |
The Alchemist | Book | Paulo Coelho | |
You - The 4 Pillars of Self-Determination | Book | Philipp Hagspiel | |
Ego Is The Enemy | Book | Ryan Holiday | |
Waking Up | Book | Sam Harris | |
The Road Less Traveled | Book | Scott Peck | |
The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People | Book | Stephen R. Covey | |
Happiness | Book | Thich Nhat Hanh | |
Man's Search For Meaning | Book | Viktor E. Frankl | |
Zhuangzi | Book | Zhuang Zhou | |
Podcast | Brené Brown | ||
Podcast | Esther Perel | ||
Podcast | Jay Shetty | ||
Podcast | Krista Tippett | ||
Lex Fridman Podcast | Podcast | Lex Fridman | |
The Daily Stoic | Podcast | Ryan Holiday | |
Podcast | Tim Ferriss | ||
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Pursuit of Wonder | YouTube Channel | ||
Einzelgänger | YouTube Channel | ||
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Blog | Leo Babauta | ||
Blog | Tim Urban | ||
The School Of Life: Eastern Philosophy | Blog | ||
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Seth Godin | Blog | ||
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